control
Interesting notion: Those who can’t control themselves, try and control those around them. Something David Schnarch writes about, as does Ellyn Bader. I guess it would make t
shoes
Simple things. Sometimes it’s all you have to do. Like try and understand what it’s like to be in someone else’s shoes. Imagine what kind of difference that would
greatness
Hope it inspires. The original is no longer on the Nike YouTube channel.
the clink of the ice
that clink of the ice in the glass that’s enough of a trigger for some people to be on alert when they are in a home with a person with an alcohol habit to duck and cover we
anger deconstructed
Some views on anger Needs and Thoughts From NVC – Nonviolent Communication: If there’s a “should” in your head, there will be anger in your heart. It relates to
trance
This, from Tara Brach, via www.nicabm.com, The National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine Compassion might be the most crucial element in healing. What&
blaming consciously
Tony Robbins inspires again, in a neat intervention he and Chloe Madanes orchestrate. If you are going to blame, you need to do it consciously. What a concept. You can’t just
thanks
Thanksgiving. What is it about? I asked someone. She said, “be with family.” Might as well, if you enjoy that sort of thing, since sometimes that’s all we got whe
that time of year
Some thoughts that relate to “that time of year”, thoughts that relate to other discussions on keeping even-keeled, keeping stress at bay, and managing your sense of se
asking and giving
Two things One is moving towards in the form of giving The other is moving towards in the form of asking A little of both will help. If you don’t ask, you’ll be getting