trance
This, from Tara Brach, via www.nicabm.com, The National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine
Compassion might be the most crucial element in healing.
What’s really going on therapy: The therapist is simply mirroring someone’s goodness to free him or her from the trance of unworthiness.
I have never heard it expressed that way, and I like it. The trance. The presumption that there’s nothing wrong with someone, except their belief that there’s something wrong. And then, one day, they wake up.