the new empathy
According to Pat Love, it turns out that there are two empathic systems in the brain. See this short video link: http://youtu.be/a8rd7KbzZTs One is the MNS – Mirror Neuron System
the difference
What’s your take on what’s going on and what needs to happen? Is it about delusion of duality and permanence? Is it about differentiation? Is it about self-empathy? Is
4 years?
It has been said that couples usually take several years to process an affair. Several years? 3 years? 4 years? Please keep this in mind. It can help orient you. Allow allow allow.
adding up
I spoke about communication, and being seen. What is this about? A quality of connection. And there’s a feeling there that people have when it’s good. A good feeling. T
by the way
As an aside, I asked, “How are you feeling, by the way?”
seen
I spoke about trust earlier. Seems being seen is really important to people. The sense that someone gets us. There’s a sense of connection there, like that look across the ro
trust
It seems to be the most important thing in a relationship. Communication is second, if there is such a thing as second, because it’s wrapped up with trust.
chain of reaction
If one person expresses dissatisfaction for unmet needs, this can trigger the other person. The strange thing about this is that the other person was fine until the first person op
half the battle
What a metaphor, “battle.” Not what I want to think of when I think of relationships, but the phrase came to my mind when I was thinking about getting from here to ther