by all means, ask
Been thinking about the basics.
By all means, ask for what you want.
By all means, give to your partner. But only if it’s coming from your heart.
And if you don’t get, then what? then what. Do you want to fight about it? Do you want to make the partner wrong for how he or is is? Do you want to struggle to change your partner? Or do you want to just deal with it? Will you just deal with it. Shift away. Get out the balm. And just deal with it.